I can’t believe it’s been TEN weeks since I started The Shallenge! As always, you can look up the original rules of The Shallenge here, and look up archives of past weeks. I’m always happy to share any of your personal Shallenges on my page, so PLEASE hit me up with stories!
Here we go with this week:
1. Experience something new.
9/18 Attend a rooftop party with old friends
This week was the week of the rooftop. On Friday, I had a beautiful night with some old friends on the rooftop of a friend’s Hell’s Kitchen building. Although this is not exactly a “new” experience, it allowed me to reconnect with some friends I haven’t seen in a few weeks.
And also, with views like this, I don’t know how anyone could ever hate New York City.
2. Go somewhere in New York City that I haven’t been before.
9/19 Little Branch Speakeasy
The Villages of NYC always have the best underground bars. Last weekend, I was looking for a quality (most likely overpriced) old fashioned, and Little Branch boasts a fantastic one. So I took a friend, and found out for myself. The space is small; the bar is located in the basement of an unassuming corner of the West Village. There is sometimes a line, but usually not too long. The music is present, but not overwhelmingly loud. I definitely enjoyed my $14 cocktail and some good conversation, but then it was time to
3. Do something alone that I would normally do with others.
9/16 Attend the Heart of Cool, weCliq NYFW launch party
A friend of mine, who I met through the Browns Backers invited me to his launch for his new app, weCliq with the fashion brand Heart of Cool. I had a plus-one to attend the party, but at the last minute I couldn’t find a friend to go with me.
So, I decided to be bold, and go alone.
Not only did I end up meeting some great people, but I also networked with some other creatives. I’m so happy that I decided to throw my ego out the door and go to this party alone.
And this was my view from the rooftop!
4. Say “yes” to something to which I would typically say “no.”
Going on a “date” and letting go
Yes, I know. I’ve talked about dates on here many, MANY times, but I allowed myself to go on a date and really just let myself go and not think.
Perhaps one of the reasons I’m so bad at dating is because I go into every date with a cynical viewpoint. Although my dating intentions are optimistic, when it comes down to it, I allow myself to think, “this isn’t going to work out.” I end up self-destructing before I’ve even gotten to know the person.
I’m happy to report, the date went well, and I’m not overthinking. For once. In my entire life…
5. Do something that scares me.
9/18 Submit my music and have it rejected
Friday I received a generic email from Pandora, telling me that my new song was rejected from their platform. I was given no specific reasoning, and have no clue what I could have done (if anything) to gain acceptance.
Picture this: Shannon Allen as an artist is an air mattress. Every time I get rejected it’s like a little pin prick into the air mattress, causing me to deflate just a little bit, until I can find a way to block the hole, before I lose all my air. I successfully plug the hole, but then a new, bigger pin comes up and makes an even larger hole. Then, an air mattress monster comes up and take a giant bite out of my side. After a while, the mattress becomes so perforated, that I’m continually attempting to plug up holes, filling myself back up, and keep old ones from re-opening. Sure, I can inflate again, but I will never be shiny and new like I used to be.
That’s what creative rejection is like.
6. Make a new friend.
9/16 Fashion Week Party
At the fashion week launch, I met a lot of awesome people. I even met up with a new girl friend the other night who I met at the party! This city is too big and too beautiful not to expand my network of friends.
Keep spreading that love around!
7. Have a book of the Week
One Last Thing Before I Go – Jonathan Tropper
Tropper is the same author of the novel, This is Where I Leave You, which was made into a movie. His writing is cynical, yet lyrical. The fiction I’ve been reading lately tends to display fallible, almost anti-heroes, that you can’t help but sympathize. Although most of the characters in this book have questionable morals and lives that are well beyond repair, the novel is a view into the ways we justify our existence, especially when faced with our eventual mortality.
I loved it! Quick read, excellent storytelling, tragic, cynical, witty, sometimes mundane, and REAL.
Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone
I cannot even count the amount of times I’ve read this book, but it’s definitely over the 15 mark at this point in my life. I read the Harry Potter series at least once every year, sometimes twice…
And y’all KNOW how much I read.
The series never gets old to me. Every time I re-read these books, I’m reminded of why I love Harry and his world so very much.
8. Purge the unnecessary.
No purging today, but it’s slowly shifting into sweater weather, which means another re-vamp of the closet is coming soon!
9. Do something that makes me feel beautiful.
Night time runs
This week I went on not one, not two, but three four-mile evening runs. Two of the runs were after 12-hour work days. Running at 9:30/10 p.m. is so freeing. The amount of runners, walkers, and bikers are sparse, so I am just left with my own thoughts and no distractions.
One of the nights, I had this pretty amazing view of the moon.
10. Surround myself with nature.
9/21 Appreciate the New York sunrise
As I was walking to work Monday morning, this was my view. Not too shabby.
9/21 A night on the Chelsea Piers
That same day, I spend a lovely evening drinking wine, and eating a picnic of sorts on the Chelsea piers. The weather was perfect, and I enjoyed some good company.
Weekly Shallenge Score: 8.5/10
Shan Baby Score: 9/10
And here’s the Shan Baby Happy Face of the Week (ie my nephew this week while we were Face Timing because he’s SO FREAKING CUTE!)